How to Overcome 您r Travel Fears

最近更新时间：10/2/20 | 2020年10月2日

恐惧。它使我们无法过着生活和实现梦想。

这是人们不双色球杀号公式的最常见原因之一。

每当我和别人谈论 长期双色球杀号公式，很多人告诉我他们希望他们能做我做的事情。他们告诉我他们所有的双色球杀号公式梦想和宏伟计划，然后当被问及为什么不这样做时’为了追求他们，他们提出了过多的恐惧：

他们担心无法负担这次双色球杀号公式。

他们担心自己在家承担太多责任。

他们担心自己在旅途中无法结识朋友。

他们担心没有能力处理它。

他们担心会发生一些事情。

有了所有这些恐惧，留在我们家里的家容易得多 舒适区 而不是出去双色球杀号公式。

It’s a big thing to step out 您r door, away from 您r safety net, and into the unknown.

The devil 您 know is always better than the devil 您 don’t.

是， 双色球杀号公式是一种特权 并且存在真钱问题，使人们无法自拔。

但是我收到的最常见的电子邮件之一是询问“the mental issues” of travel. The mindset 东西.

他们辞职去干吗？

他们处在正确的人生阶段吗？

如果他们离开，一切都会好吗？

他们回来后会找到工作吗？

这些电子邮件充满了双色球杀号公式中的紧张情绪’s endless possibilities, 但 there is also always one underlying tone to the 电子邮件s:

“马特， 我想去, 但 I’m also afraid 和我’m not sure what to do.”

I think fear of the unknown is really what holds people back the majority of people back. When 您 get rid of 您r fears and decide “Yes, I’m going to do this!”, 您 begin to find ways to scrape, save, find 工作, and do whatever it is that gets 您 on the road.

您 become a person on a mission. 您 become driven. Nothing will get in 您r way.

But first, 您 need to get over any fear 您 might have. I was on a podcast recently discussing this subject and so it has come to the forefront of my mind again. Here is my advice on dealing with fear:

您不是第一个出国双色球杀号公式的人。
当我开始双色球杀号公式时，让我感到安慰的一件事就是知道很多其他人环游了我之前的世界，结果一切都很好。如果来自18岁 英国 on a gap year came home in one piece, there was no reason 我不会’t too. 您 是n’是第一个离开家园并探索亚洲丛林的人。哥伦布和麦哲伦有理由害怕。你不’t.

那里 is a well-worn tourist trail out there. 那里 是 people to help 您. 那里 是 people to travel with. 您 是n’t going to be alone.

And 您 是n’冒险进入真正的未知。

2. 您 made it this far.
If 您 already have one foot out the door, why turn back now? 什么 will 您 regret later in life: that 您 let 您r fears keep 您 home, 要么 that 您 went traveling? Sometimes 您 just have to go for it. Everything 工作s out in the end. 唐’t turn back halfway. 您 能够 do this!

3.你和其他人一样有能力。
I’m smart, I’m capable, 和我 have common sense. If other people 能够 travel the world, why 能够’t I? 是什么让我觉得我缺乏技能？ 我意识到没有理由我不能’做其他人做的事情。我和其他所有人一样出色。

唐’t doubt 您rself. 您 got by in 您r life just fine now. The same will be true when 您 travel.

此外，得益于在线提供的所有资源以及所有 共享经济网站 that help connect 您 with other travelers.

4.责任可能很快消失。
Everyone uses “responsibility” as the main reason to avoid travel. But that is just 您r fear telling 您 that 您 have things at home that 能够’t be let go of. However, those responsibilities 是 simply chains that hold 您 down.

当我辞职时, I didn’t have to 工作 anymore.

当我取消账单时，它们消失了。

当我卖掉汽车时，付款已经不见了。

When I sold my 东西, I didn’t have any.

We think this is all very complicated, 但 with a few phone calls, everything that held me back was gone, taken care of. Suddenly, my responsibilities disappeared. Vaporized. It is easier to cut the cord than 您 think.

5. 您 will find a job when 您 get home.
人们受阻的另一个原因是，他们相信，出国后会失业。他们担心雇主会发现自己的简历有空缺，而不希望雇用他们。

但是在这个全球化的世界中 拥有异国文化和人民的经验是真正的财富. So is showing that 您 是 independent, courageous, and capable.

毕竟，如果不学习这些技能，没有人能进入世界各地。雇主意识到了这一点，现在将双色球杀号公式视为一种积极的事物，它可以教授商学院无法做到的无形的个人技能（especially if 您 工作 要么 volunteer overseas too）。

6. 您 will make friends.
People always ask me how I make friends on the road. They tell me that they’re not very social and that it’s hard for them to meet strangers. The truth is that when 您 travel, 您 是 never alone. 那里 是 many solo travelers out there in the same boat as 您. 您’ll find people who will come up and talk to 您, even if 您 是 too scared to go up to them.

I used to be nervous talking to strangers, 但 the fear subsides as 您 eventually realize that everyone wants to make new friends. And one of those friends is 您.

Here 是 some 文章s on making friends and socializing to help 您 feel more comfortable before 您 head out:

• 寻找终身友谊
• 如何克服孤独
• 如何使用社交网络双色球杀号公式
• 在路上认识人

7. 您 能够 always come back.
If 您 make it three months into 您r trip and decide that 长期双色球杀号公式 isn’t for 您, it’s perfectly OK to go home. 那里’s no shame in cutting 您r trip short. Maybe traveling isn’t for 您, 但 您 would never have known if 您 didn’t try.

那里’s no such thing as failure in the world of travel.

双色球杀号公式教我们很多事情，包括有时我们不知道’t like to travel. Getting up and going is more than most people do, and if it isn’t for 您, at least 您 tried. That in itself is a major accomplishment.

Fear is an element that affects everything we do. 是， fear is a healthy biological response designed to make sure we don’t do foolish things. But, in many ways, fear is the reason why we never succeed. It’s 害怕 leaving everything 您 know and heading off into the unknown.

However, once 您 look at why 您 是 afraid of doing it, 您’ll realize there’s no reason to be. 您 能够 travel. 您 是 能。它’s not as hard as 您 think.

唐’t let fear win.
 

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Note: This 文章 was 要么 iginally published in 2011 但 redone and updated with new tips and links in 2020.